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Colour Week and the Boring Existence Of Grown-Ups

Why is it that whenever I’m brainstorming for ideas to write about, my kids’ lives seem more interesting than mine?

Like right now, they are in the middle of Colour Week at daycare. Each day this week is assigned a colour and they dress accordingly. I wonder how we could make this happen at my place of work!

I guess nothing is stopping me from dressing head to toe in yellow one day, and in full green the next.

Normal grown-up clothes are kind of boring. I’ve spent most of the work week in yoga pants which have a hole in them and have therefore been demoted to stay-at-home status. Only my laptop could see me, so it didn’t really matter.

I did go to dance class, however, where I was the only one dressed in colour. In my bright blue yoga pants and a dark green t-shirt, both of which looked completely fine at home, I stood out like a blinking neon sign! Everyone else had dressed in black. Perhaps grown-ups do have colour codes, after all.

I’m reminded of my German friend who told me she can only wear her favourite pink skirt in spring because otherwise she’ll get comments. Why are you dressed so brightly? Oh, you’re wearing summer clothes? Thinking of this takes my thoughts to my new flowery purse, hiding in a cupboard, waiting for the sun. The purse and I are soul mates.

I’m sure there are other grown-ups who’d like to play dress-up at work, like me, if only you could somehow get away with it and still look professional. These people usually come out at Christmas with their ugly sweater contests and ugly sweater jokes, trying hard to make everyone believe that they don’t think their sweater sporting a knitted Darth Vader with reindeer antlers is super cool. I’ll admit right now I love their Christmas sweaters.

One thing I’d really like in grown-up size are those sneakers with built-in lights. I always wonder what happens when the kid jumps in a puddle, though, and for this reason I haven’t considered buying them for my boys. They love puddles too much and I love them too much. But for myself? I’ve outgrown the puddle phase and now I’m just waiting for a designer to make led light shoes trendy. There’s actually a Finnish designer who’s known for adding bunny ears to her shoes for grown women, so at least there’s hope.

The photos here are from our family’s extravagant version of Colour Week, Colour Month, which we experienced in Spain in February. After seeing a whole paradeful of people dressed as strawberry muffins burning a large lizard figure on the beach, this was the scene we returned to:

And you, dear reader, are you a beige or a colour splash kind of person? Some of you are perhaps the opposite of me, loving the sad beige parenting trend. I get you, I used to be beige at some point, too.

(For funny critique on muted tones in kids’ fashion, have a look here.)

Thanks for reading!

77 replies on “Colour Week and the Boring Existence Of Grown-Ups”

I’m with you. I’d like to see some adult sizes of those sneakers with built-in lights. As for wearing beige, not gonna happen. I don’t wear bright colors but next to my face I wear medium or light shades that flatter my summer skin tone. I wear lots of black pants/skirts or jeans, but then add pops of color.

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Another light sneaker fan! What about cozy, fluffy slippers with built-in lights, for lounging about at home? And if it’s dark, they would lead the way… I would buy them, too, and pair them with crazy print pj’s… But yes, black/dark blue/denim pants/skirt plus a pop of colour top work for me, too

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I don’t think I need to tell you what kind of person I am. 😀 That said… today I’m wearing grey sweatpants and an army camouflage top (which amore once bought me. Talking about fantasies.) I’m soooo happy that you belong to the colour crowd. Rock that purse in that snow of yours, on purpose. And what fun for your kids to have a colour week!! Of course, not everybody can afford clothes of all colours. I wonder if certain parents get into trouble on such a week and have to buy colour-coded accessories.

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It’s a country specific thing. In Europe, especially the relatively colder countries, people dress often in plain blacks and blues whereas in India it would be unimaginable even in the coldest of winter months to be seen in plain monochromatic clothes! We love our colors in India. A friend and I once were trying to get me some t-shirts in Switzerland, when I had just started living in Germany and I was having trouble finding stuff I was used to – i.e. colorful! We agreed that in India, we would consider it a total waste of money if the clothes didn’t have even a little bit of print or embroidery 😂. It’s been 7 years and I still cannot wear boring clothes like everyone else here. I don’t stand out like neon but I won’t be in totally plain clothes either 😉. And now when I am visiting India, it takes me a while to get used to dressing up as per the latest fashion there which annoys my mother 🙃.

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I loved this little story of yours and can imagine! Indian women’s clothes always look so amazingly colourful.
I think next week, I’ll wear my tropical print yoga pants to dance class, just to give everyone a bit lf a shock! I’m becoming the crazy print lady, and embracing it 🤪

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Red is kind of bright, though! I love your red coat. Matches the booth in your blog pic, too! And those sneakers, does he like them more than his other shoes, or not care? My kids are pretty particular about clothing and sometimes really love a garment…

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Love the sunny Spanish photos. The return home photo looks like it would have been a shock of biblical proportions. I’m not even beige anymore. I’m mostly gray and black for simplicity! I have not always been so. I once had my mother knit me a sweater using whatever leftover yarn she had and ended up with a fabulous bright mosaic. My mother wasn’t best pleased because my brother and dad both wanted one as well!

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It would be totally fun to have people wear their home outfit to work. In a way, it shows the people as they really are. I used to have a house mate that literally wore a onesie during his work days all day (he worked from home as a very high level executive manager in a respectable company). It was so funny to see him get his suit on and fly all over Europe for whatever, and come back and go back to his onesie immediately. (Admitted – we all wore onesies in our house back then, I used to have a slightly undersized minion onesie)

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A onesie! And an undersized minion onesie! Yikes!! Well, who am I to judge, I sometimes wear a neat top and pj pants. Talking of fun outfits, there’s a day over here where kids dress their parents for work. I’ve never participated because I haven’t been to the office since the kids were 2, but it sounds fun! Will do it if I get the chance

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Indeed, the adults should have not one, but several colour weeks LOL
Your post reminded me of my first months in Canada.. I was still wearing my European clothes, when, one day, my boss stopped by my desk and asked me if these were not Canadian clothes. It was a 2-piece summer suit, light blue with a dark blue floral assortment – nothing too bright, or too colourful. Also, another day she came to tell me it is not Friday, so I cannot wear casual tops.. It is all about mentality I think, and we should encourage people living a colourful life!
p.s. almost half of my t-shirts are red, but have recently given up the pink clothes😉

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Oh my gosh, that company sounds stuck up! Maybe she was just jealous of you looking nice? Luckily everything is very casual over here – it’s always casual Friday! The strictest I’ve had was when I was a flight attendant, even our hair accessories had to be the right colour and I once got told off for removing my uniform’s silk scarf… 🙄

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I believe the rules became more relaxed in the past few years here as well, especially if you don’t have a direct contact with a customer (although I got a bit scared once, in a shoe store, at how almost naked the attendant was😂), but like you, nobody sees my yoga pants anymore these days LOL
p.s. I love the way the flight attendants wear their suits, from my side, I have always appreciated the neatness, and elegance of those suits and scarves, although I’m sure it’s not always pleasant to wear them, but a big Thanks for all of you and those who wear them! xx

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Yeah, I was never one of those immaculately dressed flight attendants! I hate ironing and don’t have the patience to redo my makeup several times a day 🤪 But your’re right, all my colleagues looked super cool 😊

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I’m both! I like basic colors like black, white, gray, and khaki, but I’ve been know to sport a colorful shirt or scarf or purse, especially in the summer. I very much like pink and not a pale, sedate pink but a nice vibrant one! Light-up shoes would probably not make it onto my feet, though! 🙂

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I used to be very careful with colours and chose grey, brown, beige etc because they suited my skin tone. And I loved khaki. But nowadays I don’t care if they suit my tones or not, I just wear what I want. I recently bought a white sweater with black little dots sewn onto it almost like little balls – the colours are basic but the pattern was very cute!

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Lovely writing Snow & I enjoy yoyur pictures too. What is it about hot weather that gives us permission to wear color? and vice versa? I have a neighbor who dared to paint his house a mediterranean pink stucco with red roof tiles. I thought nothing of it until another neighbor complained bitterly . It made me look and see that every other house was grey, white or black .. trimmed with black, grey or white windows and roofs.
The same goes for clothes & shoes with sparkly lights. Except on kids. And pride parades. And carnival … which comes from the Caribbean … and takes us back to hot climes and loud colors 🙂

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I feel sorry for your creative neighbour! It’s a shame we can only dress in carnival outfits once a year – well, over here we don’t even have carnival at all, except the samba one – but it should be more often. Once a month! Besides colour, I wish we could bring a more relaxed way of live from warm countries. Even in Spain could you see the different in the pace of life. I’m kind of tired of everyone being so important all the time 😋😄

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“… tired of everyone being so important all the time ..” I know what you mean. It comes with work doesn’t it – all these ambitious and very intense people. I would tolerate them during work hours but once I was home .. turn them off & tune them out. I don’t miss them at all.

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You should teach in an elementary school. There are all sorts of wacky clothes days I could participate in if I wanted. (But I usually don’t want to.) Our kindergarten teachers wear the wackiest getups to celebrate all sorts of stuff with their students.

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Grownups are the most boring people I know. They have forgotten how to play, forgotten how to live in the moment. They have invented rules and built cages for themselves, based on…what? Everyone thinks childhood is lovely and children are lovely but all of a sudden when you’re an adult you’re not supposed to act “childish”.
Balderdash. Who are the grownups that believe this folly?
Not the ones I am playing with.

Slainte,

Paz

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Oh I completely agree with you! While I also love pastel and muted colours, especially in winter (for my clothes), I just can’t wait for spring to come to finally wear my brightly coloured dresses and skirts! I remember the sneakers that would light up, I had a pair when I was a kid and I absolutely loved them! It also became a bit of a drama with my (twin) sister, when both her shoes would light up and none of mine… so out mum just gave us one each ahah! I would love if they had them for adults!!

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I am a colour splash person but am currently living in Korea which is not a colour splash country. Even if I’m wearing all black, I make sure my earrings are colourful and I’ve been in a red scarf all winter (in my all black outfit sans scarf). I would be in my element at an 80s or 90s dress up party.

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I am a perfect mixture of both but that comes from how i was raised, from red lipstick to bright blue blazers. I was never told anything negative for how i dressed, i was actually complimented often. I wear colors proudly as the houses in Mexico ❤️ and then i will wear black and brown and beige. What i like is what I’ll wear ❤️ loved your post! Thank you for sharing ❤️

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I am definitely a more neutral color dresser now. The thought of wearing color kind of scares me now. I always think to myself how sad it is because years ago I didn’t think this about color. Nice post & I I love the colors you captured of the clown parade, amazing!

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If neutrals suit your mood then I’m happy you’ve found them 😊 The parade was part of the spring carneval which they have in a lot of Catholic countries. But there was nothing religious about it. One guy was dressed in stockings that made his legs look hairy – hilarious! Fake leg hair stockings are on an entirely other level of bold dressing choices!

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Reminds me of the following “What a distressing contrast there is between the radiant intelligence of the child and the feeble mentality of the average adult.”

Sigmund Freud

It’s up to us to re-engage the radiance that was always there, but maybe forgotten. Thank you for this reminder.

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Colourful and fun post! Here in the tropics, people wear whatever colors they want all year long since it’s a warm country. You can see all sorts of bright and neutral colors on a street. I used to be very colourful but now prefer neutral and earthy colors. I was targeted by pickpockets in Mongolia because of my bright orange jacket. Lesson learned, so it’s neutral colors for traveling purpose! 😀

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