My grandma would give me papaya when I was a child and sprinkle the fruit, already sweeter than sweet, with sugar.
I’d look at the two halves, that beautiful coral colour and the round black pearls stuck there not wanting to leave. The fruit was enormous and its aroma would invade my nostrils. It’s size was a testimony to the strength of the sun – it just kept on growing, growing, growing until it was ripe and perfect.
Many days and nights passed and adventures of the mundane kind happened. We eventually moved across the globe and aged, lost some of the laughter that comes with sunny, carefree days, our new lives becoming more indoors-oriented and involving fewer papayas. (Close to zero papayas, but who’s counting.)
Some 35 years later, that same grandma is now self-isolating and one day, we decided to drive over with our three-year-olds. We parked the car on the empty front yard of her apartment building and, holding the boys, waved to her. My grandma had opened the window of her 4th floor apartment and we chatted, heads tilted up, her head facing down.
But, true to her nature, that wasn’t all. She had prepared a little surprise for her great-grandkids. Like a long-haired princess in a tower, she had attached a long string to a little bag which she then lowered from the window slowly, ever so slowly. The bag’s journey downwards was a spectacle of its own, very much appreciated by two pairs of eyes aged three, the bag traveling and bumping and descending, approaching the ground with confidant curiosity. The string seemed never-ending.
And guess what wonders the bag held? Upon opening, the traveling tote revealed two ice creams for the boys.
Ice creams! (I scream for ice cream! A voice in my head recalls an 80’s moment. The girl in my memory is barely older than the boys licking ice cream now.)
Slurp, slurp. Great-Grandma is funny! the boys exclaimed while ice cream was melting on one boy’s chin and the other’s coat, on a close-to-zero winter day. Even two weeks later, Great-Grandma was funny that day!
More funny moments, please. I hope those two little boys get to taste large papayas one day. The ones we get imported over here are tiny. It’s not the same, not even close.
The photos are from Aruba, 2012 (almost a decade ago!)
73 replies on “Sugar On Top”
Aw your grandmother is so kind! I am sure that made your boys very happy. I love papayas too. I love all the exotic fruits and veggies especially after I moved to Europe haha. Never cared for them when I was in Nepal where they’re so delicious. Papayas, lychees, mangoes.. nothing is the same here.
The first photo is breathtaking ❤
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Yeah exotic fruit is really not the same once picked raw and imported across the globe! And by exotic I also mean ordinary fruit like oranges and avocado – they are not the same when removed from where they grow! A bit like us people too, I guess. Take care, Pooja xxx
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Ahh, there you have it, a sweet memory of the life-time also preserved in this way. Imagine, they will grow up under the impression that these things happen, the quarantine, sick people, ice-cream from the sky. Nobody told us. Or about papaya… I never tasted one. 🙂 Lovely memory and images.
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A lot of people over here have never tasted papaya either – hubby always has trouble identifying the fruit I buy! Papaya is very sweet and its smell almost sickly sweet. Try it sometime, just slice it open and eat with a spoon.
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I’m afraid I also can’t identify it for certain. 🙂 Need some practice before shopping.
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I have trouble identifying common Finnish root veggies! Like swedes or turnips! Some of them are green and it’s okay, and some must never be eaten green 😅 Too hard!
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Memories to cherish! Lovely that the boys could connect…
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Thanks! 😊
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I always get mixed up with swedes and turnips too! But I never mix my pawpaw (papaya) and rockmelon.
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My favourite is passionfruit! Yum!!!!
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Passionfruit on a pavlova is delicious.
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We don’t really have pavlova over here! I know it’s popular over there and I wonder if it was already popular vack when I lived there? I remember ice cream more than cake 🤣
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Pavlova had been an institution here for as long as I can remember, as a very young child. Quintessential barbeque food. You should make one. Actually, it just came back to me that I saw some huge meringues in the food hall down on the harbour in Helsinki. You could use one of those and voila, instant pavlova.
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Sounds like a great memory between your boys and their great-grandmoyher! Perfectly cute. Thanks for sharing the moment with us.
Take good care of you and your family! Xoxoxo
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Thanks Juls, you too!
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What a lovely post! My own mother also always sprinkled sugar on melon, and strawberries. She crushed the strawberries with a fork to release the juice and, to this day, I sometimes do the same. The boys will remember that day, even though they’re small. X
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Maybe I’ll try to crush strawberries with a fork the next time I have some 😊 Thanks for reading!
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Precious memories for you all. Sweet ones 🥭
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Yes, sweet ones!
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It’s Monday! I’ve started a second blog – 100% food lovers.
Please have a look when you’ve got the opportunity!
https://bonjourpetitdejeuner.wordpress.com
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Ooh! 🤗🤗🤗 I’m happy for your choice because your food pics are sublime!
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I’ve followed your advice!!
And that will be a good exercise to practice more technical food photo sometimes…
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Yay!! Go girl!!! 😀
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What a wonderful gift from grandma in these extraordinary times! Such a lovely thing to do for the boys and here’s hoping you’ll all be able to taste a true papaya again one day 🧡
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Thanks, dear! I hope one day we’ll all be able to travel again, carefree and in a greener way, not polluting the environment as much as up to now
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How lovely, your little boys will remember those ice creams for a long time. Your visit would have made your Grandmother happy too. I hoe she is coping well and managing to get her food shopping delivered. Let’s hope it’ll all be over soon,I think we all want our old lives back. Take care all of you x
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Thanks, Marion! Yes, it took this much for us to start appreciating the little things. Take care!! xx
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What a nice image and what a great idea by your grandmother. Your boys might well remember that event more than the general situation of this pandemic. If you hadn’t identified your photos I was going to ask where in Finland they were taken!
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How I wish the photos were from Finland!! 😆 Thanks Graham for reading, once again!
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What beautiful memories, and I’m sure those ice creams lowered to your children during these strange times will form fond memories for them too. That visit was a great gift for your grandmother, and your children. I had papaya sprinkled with a squeeze of lime juice once. It was gorgeous. We don’t get good papaya in the south of Australia though. It’s one of those fruits that’s only really nice if eaten where it grows.
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Well compared to us, you don’t live very far away from papayas, after all! 😁 Back when I was a flight attendant, whenever we flew back to Europe from Thailand, the crew would get papaya with lime juice with our catering, so I know what you mean! 🤗
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Oh such a sweet grandma. Thanks for sharing. So inspirational and heartwarming. I hope she’s staying healthy and safe, you too Snow. 🙂
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Thanks, Amor! Hope your family is well! 🌻
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Family’s good here. Over 11k cases in our small island but there’s tremendous trust in the gov’t. 🙂
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❤️
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Oh how wonderful! I LOVE papaya! and Ice Cream!! Oh boy! 🍨🍨🍨
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What a combo! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Great memories & story.
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Thanks Sue!
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I am trying to picture ice creams coming down in a bag on a string! Such a cute story; your grandma sounds like a positive and wonderful person, and I hope your boys get many more years with her around.
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Yes, she’s always coming up with things like this, it’s totally her 😊 Thanks Lexi for stopping by – take care!!
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That is a wonderful story. Something special which your boys will remember!
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Thanks Sandy! Sure is! 😊
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What a lovely story. And what a wonderful person your grandma is. Ice cream! The twins must have been over the moon.
Alison
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Oh yes, never too much ice cream! 😁 Thanks Alison!
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That’s so sweet! I am imagining Rapunzel that gives ice-creams :-)..Oh and Papayas – I so miss them!
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Hahah! 😊 Thanks for reading!
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Pawpaws, guavas, avos and granadilla (passion fruit).. very South AFrican too and delicious.. 😉 don’t get it except avos, in France much.. 😉
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Oh but you have lovely treats like apricots over there, over here they are close to inedible. Even something as simple as an orange is so much tastier where it grows. The Mediterranean climate is perfect for so many fruits 😍 Do you miss SA?
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Yes I miss many aspects of SA.. I have 3 sisters there.. but right now not sure I want to live there.. 😉
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Thank you for sharing your fond memories with us. I for one love papaya somehow your memory made me appreciate it that much more.
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Thanks so much for taking the time to read my post. Sweet memories, sweet fruit. 😊
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Sigh. And now I’m longing for the times in the before… and my family. My big extended family.
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Those moments live in our memories…
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Awww…what a beautiful memory created!!
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Thanks Amy! True!
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Oh my what a wonderful story … 🙂
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Thanks Julie! 💕
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A heartwarming story..your grandma is very young at heart! 🙂
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Well said and you’re right, she is!
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Loved this post, especially the title. I remember my grandmother once making a giant chocolate cake with fudge frosting. She gave me a piece then when I asked for another – I was five – she looked over her shoulder to make sure my Mom wasn’t listening, and whispered, “Don’t tell your mother” as she sliced me another piece.
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Hahah! I can so relate to that! I guess that’s what grandmothers are for. Thanks for the nice words and take care!
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What a lovely story! If you hadn’t mentioned it was a near-zero winter’s day, I would have continued imagining a bright summer day (probably because of the warm photos you included).
I’m not a fan of papaya, but I’ll eat it if it’s offered to me. I’d much prefer a mango! 😛
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Thanks Pistachios! I prefer mango too, and passionfruit, but papaya is such a rare treat to me now, maybe once in a decade, that it’s highly appreciated! 😁
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Ah! Papaya. Or ice-cream… I’m sure your grandma was delighted. 💕
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Win-win, we all were!
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Oh, what a lovely story. 😍 What a thoughtful granny she is. I also miss the papayas we used to buy in South Africa. The tiny, tasteless ones available here just don’t compare.
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Absolutely agree. They just don’t get the right taste. Thanks for dropping by!
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Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories!
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Thanks for reading, Nadia!
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She sounds wonderful!
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She is! 😊
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