On our day off in Bangkok, I soaked in the hotel pool with a fellow flight attendant I’d just met the day before. The small rooftop pool area was tightly wedged between neighboring high-rises but we still had some sun there. Some of the other buildings were lower, some taller, with windows facing the pool and towards the city view beyond.
Feeling lazy, kicking my feet under water, I was thinking about ordering a fresh smoothie. My colleague was part of the Swedish half of our crew, and at fifty, quite a bit older than me. She looked absolutely gorgeous, in a natural way, and at least two decades younger than her age.
Used to this relaxed lifestyle, which kept her happy and young, she was telling me how she only worked half the year, the winters, so she could travel to warm places when it was cold in Sweden. The summers were for staying home in Sweden, maximizing her happiness.
She went on to tell me that she’d been married for a long time and being a flight attendant had only been good for their marriage, since she and her husband didn’t see enough of each other to get bored.
She seemed like a person who had found a way to lead a life perfect for her. Maybe that’s why I remember this conversation so well. Her happiness was contagious in that moment. For a moment I felt like I, too, could make anything happen. And I did.
36 replies on “Day Off In Bangkok”
it’s always nice when you meet someone who is happy 🙂
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I agree! 🙂
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I guess we never know where inspiration is going to come from. She sounds like a remarkable person.
Alison
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Thanks, Alison, for sharing your thoughts. Serenely happy people always make an impression on me, and often they are quite willing to share their secrets to happiness 😊
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Sounds like an excellent life. Sweden is truly magical in the summer.
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It always sounded pretty perfect to me 😊 Inspiring, in a way, too. Thanks for dropping by!
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It’s really nice to laze around the pools of bkk hotels. Especially on hot days!
Happiness is indeed contagious. 😊
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It is contagious, isn’t it?! 😉 Thanks for commenting!
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Indeed! 🙂
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Really nice story 🙂 Thanks for sharing!
When you wrote “She seemed like a person who had found a way to lead a life perfect for her.” – I love this because that’s what everyone should aim for, find our perfect life that works for us. And stop wishing we had someone else’s life.
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Once again we agree, I’m totally with you! 😊 People have different dreams and goals, don’t compare yourself to others too much! Have a great weekend Ines!
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Have a great weekend as well! Mine will be a long one and I feel very inspired with your story ✨
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😊
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I too met a woman like her and she told me how being a flight attendant as well had helped her find the love of her life. Its amazing to listen people share their stories with us, isn’t it?
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I just love hearing people’s stories!!! How one decision leads to another and you never know where you’ll end up. Thanks for commenting! 😊
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the perfect memory and the perfect picture!
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Thanks, Juls! ☺️
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I think my marriage stays strong because I take so many hiking trips on my own! Haha. But seriously, we all need our own time; for me, this adds to my own happiness and serenity.
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Definitely! Sometimes you appreciate people more when you’ve had some distance, it gives you perspective 😄
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You have found a way to find contentment! That is what we all should crave and find. Some call it happiness but I feel that is too transient. Contentment is achievable.
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True! Contentment is a better word. Thanks, Amanda, for your thoughts!
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That’s quite a different take on marriage, relationships, and happiness. I think there might be some truth to it. Distance does make the heart fonder. But, it would be interesting to see what happens after retirement? 🙂
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Ooh, good point! 😊 Sadly, I’m not in touch with her so we’ll never know!
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Yeah! What a great, upbeat post. You surely did.
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Thanks, MM! ☺️
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What a beautiful post! I am happy for her, and I love your last sentences 🙂 Happy people are always so inspiring!
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They are! ☺️ Thanks, Pooja!!
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working just half the year…. now THATS the way to live
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Thanks!
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Beautiful photo – if you ever get any with Bangkok in it, I would definitely like to see them! 😊
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Thanks! 😀 I went to Bangkok for a quick work trip once or twice but sadly don’t have any photos! Would love to go again one day! 🙂 Is that where you live?
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It’s where I’d like to hang out! 😊😉
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Touching story. We are responsible for creating our own happiness. Life is short.
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Thanks so much for the uplifting trail of comments! Not many people click through the old ones! And yes, life is so short
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